24Apr/110
Five Top Stress Relief Tips For The Moment
Are you in a stressful situation and need stress relief this very moment? Can't make it another moment? The following five stress relief tips will help you immediately.
Take a break from whatever it is that is pushing you over the edge. If a meeting is out of control, excuse yourself to the restroom. Are your children fighting like crazy? Separate them, pretend you have to make a phone call, and lock yourself in the bedroom for a moment. Is your partner being overly emotional? Ask your partner for some time to clear your head. Is the stressor a long term and overarching issue? Schedule a day off. Just by getting out of the stressful situation, you will feel better as your stress level sinks. Make good use of that break. Inhale deeply. Deep breathing exercises force your body to return to a more normal physical response, instead of staying in fight or flight mode. Don't think about anything except how it feels to breathe slow, deep, even breaths. When you feel relaxed, you can try to deal with the stressor once again. Put the problem at hand into perspective. Consider if this situation will matter in a week or month or year. Is your job on the line? Your relationship with your child or spouse? Is this a life-threatening situation? Think of the other parts of your life that are positive. Seek out answers. Figure out what your responsibility is. Come up with a course of action. Once you’ve gained perspective, think through what you can do about the situation. Let go of what you can’t change, figure out actions you can take, and trust your efforts will be enough. Re-engage with a positive, relaxed, proactive attitude. If when you return to the situation, emotions are still running high, you may need to help the other people involved relieve their stress. Look for ways to talk them down off the ledge, seeking common ground and solutions. You need to actively manage your stress. If your life is high-stress, you may want to build stress relief techniques into your daily routine.